If someone were to offer you a pill that would give you instant immortality, would you swallow it? [Aside: I would like to try to avoid religious or moral issues and simply take the question at face-value.]
I think that one's response to this question is quite telling.
- Did you answer "yes" or "no" or "I don't know"?
- Did you hesitate before you answered?
- Are you still thinking about it?
Depending on these - and I'm sure other - factors, I think you can learn about yourself, how you perceive life and your beliefs about the future. These are some points that I feel the question raises.
How attached are you to the material aspects of life?
Very few of your belongings are going to exist for eternity. Wealth may come and go.
What is you attitude towards your relationships?
Do you feel you can cope with your friends, family, partner, children passing away as you live on? Do you feel that they are what keep you going and that to be without them will not be worth it? Maybe it is simply not what you would want. Are you, in fact, dependent? Perhaps you feel that their love can be replaced by other rich relationships in the future. But, remember, that you will continuously have to go through the loss of each "lifetime" of relationships. Loss is part of life, but can you keep going with "lifetime loss" after "lifetime loss"?
How comfortable are you with change?
Everything in your life is no doubt going to keep changing with time - new jobs, different homes, altering life circumstances. Perhaps too much change is too unsettling for you, or perhaps you thrive on the new.
How excited are you with life?
Do you feel that there is enough on the planet to keep you occupied for eternity? Perhaps you fear tiredness and boredom. Celebrating life may not be part of your way.
Do you believe you are in control of your life?
Perhaps you think that life is great and for eternity life can have its great moments. Perhaps you think that life currently leaves much to be desired and you are not so sure if you can face an eternity of this. By the latter, you are, in effect indicating that you do not have much faith in your ability to improve matters and make changes. Maybe you perceive the required personal development as being too difficult.
So now, going back to your response to the question. You may have the same reply, you may have changed it, you may now have a reply where you didn't previously.or some further ideas.
- What does this say about you and your life?
- Have you had any realizations?
- Is there anything that you feel you need to change or consider? (Even if you will not be venturing into eternity on earth)
Let us know in the comments...
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